Had my Evo 8 months now and have done a little over 5000m, and thought I'd see if any of the bad bits (there's not many!) are common to other APE owners.
1. 'Normal' mode is awful! I try to keep it in normal mostly to try and be a bit more fuel efficient on the daily commute, but especially in the cold its sooo sluggish and slow, I try and pull out onto a busy roundabout and without a ton of revs it just bogs and takes ages to pick up (while other cars lunge towards me). Sometimes you need to over take quickly so you floor it and its really just slow and rubbish, feels like your having to thrash it to get some speed. Anyone else get this?
Love normal mode, its a more natural engine/throttle response, prior to SS it had a deadzone at the beginning where there was no turbo response, great for eco driving, not good for smooth progress if you got the throttle position wrong, the SS map has changed normal mode, unlike the 500 boys I use Normal all the time, I'm not ashamed to say it

, does that make me less of a man

in the Evo its a lot like the 500s Sport mode just with a bit of deadzone at the front, new map has made it deadzone free and much easier to do smoother gearchanges, the power delivery is lovely and progressive, feels nice and strong, even smoother, more like a strong 3 litre than surging 1.4 turbo.

Its nice and strong continually building in delivery to just over 6k but then it always has been, with sport mode its like the car shoots its load to early
Having used Normal mode for near 12k bar trackdays (even used it then to be honest) I'd say something might be up with your motor if its as bad as you make it sound. When I have used sport mode and switched back to normal the amount of throttle throw it needs makes the car feel dead when your foot is tuned to Sport mode which only gives you about 5mm of travel, you just have to get back in tune with it.
2. MPG - how did Fiat ever get enough to claim 47mpg combined? At 68mph in 6th, normal mode, the display says 42mpg, which is ok, but show it a slight incline and it drops like a stone. Tickle the acclerator around town with a few duel carriageway bits and the average mpg for the whole tank is around 29-35..
Yup hard to match the Fiat claims, anything over 70mph and it drops like a stone, its not bad though I'm running and average of 38mpg and have a lot of 40-44mpg tanks. Hard to make any claims on new map, but I am finding it hard to drive as efficiently with no deadzone.
Most of my fuel ups tracked
http://www.fuelly.com/driver/sandys/punto-evoPretty sure start/stop helps some of this.
3. Climate control - sometimes you set it to 24 and it feels cold in the car, other times you set it to 19 and its still getting warmer inside.
Its not brilliant but seems to work fine for me.
4. When flooring it in Sport mode, sometimes you get a massive shove from all that lovely torque, other times at feels like the boost builds then tails off as you go through the rev range (more than you'd expect as I know it will a lessen as the revs rise) and the car is really not that fast, like there's some flat spots in the map.
As mentioned I rarely use it, its too aggressive, I have noticed an on an off nature to it, particularly if I change fuels.